Sexual Vampires
By: Mabel Iam
Drink the spilt blood from a honey thigh But soon! That time
may find us in pieces but together, in an embrace, mouths
shattered and souls bitten by love – adapted from Federico
García Lorca
The father of the vampire Dracula, the Vampire Count, has
become one of the most popular of archetypes The novel Dracula
tells the story of a vampire man in search of physical
immortality But he can only live forever if he feeds on human
blood In this story, blood represents the energy that flows
throughout the body, and which gives us life Although this
premise seems preposterous to some, the story originated in
author Bram Stoker’s historical research, fertile imagination,
and unique genius
Vampire people
Some people perpetuate the energy pattern of vampirism; they
feed on the emotional, sexual, physical, and mental energy of
others It goes without saying that they do not feed directly on
other people’s blood, as did Count Dracula Rather, they play on
other people’s weaknesses to subject them to their whims
Vampirisim is related to the inner and outer projection of a
person’s own denials and inhibitions In particular, it reflects
everything that is feared and repressed in the most instinctive
part of the self Inside vampire personalities, there is both a
consciousness of lacking, and a desire to obtain that which they
lack These traits may stem from certain negative social
conditionings vampire-types may have had to endure:
mistreatment, lack of self esteem, and rejection, sometimes even
from their own parents One way to understand vampire people is
to think of some sort of “monster” dwelling inside a person,
forever unsatisfied, always in need of something external for
survival This monster cannot sustain itself or give anything to
others
Emotional vampires
Emotional vampires often appear lonely or lacking in affection
Playing up this vulnerability is precisely the way in which they
ensnare victims But their hunger is impossible to satisfy
Extremely voracious, they desire to possess other people
In some ways, emotional vampires are like people who suffer from
depression, alcoholics, or drug addicts You will understand
their mindset better if you think of those friends who are
forever talking about their problems but never listen to yours
They might respond to something you’ve said by saying, “It’s
exactly the same with me,” and go on to tell their story without
really acknowledging your words
Sexual vampires
Sexual vampires are those people who try to establish a sexual
relationship with somebody but only at a very shallow level,
avoiding any kind of deep or affectionate rapport They are
looking only for the satisfaction of their instinctive desires
They treat their partners as if they were disposable After
making love, their sexual partners are left with a void inside
Sexual vampires don’t usually get in touch with their victims
again If they do so, it is only on their terms, and they refuse
to explain what their true feelings are And if they do come
back, it is only for the sake of sex
There is only one way to protect ourselves from vampires:
recover the love for ourselves and focus on the light that lives
within us, where there is no room or shelter for the shadows
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