Be Glad That There’s Quarrel in Your Relationship

Is your love relationship smooth? Have the both of you actually quarreled before? If your answer is yes, then you should be happy and be glad that it happened But if your answer is however a no, then you should be aware of the danger that you are facing Hmm… did I make things sound a bit too scary? Ha, it is not exactly that serious; don’t be scared off by me Well, I should believe that the both of you are just, still in the sweet honeymoon period of your relationship
In life, we encountered a lot of up and downs But it is nevertheless, through all these problems and obstacles that we learn to stand up on our feet times and times again despite the falls we had, that made us what we are today If life were to be so smooth for us, we wouldn’t have grown and learn to truly appreciate it The same goes for love; if a relationship is ever so sweet and smooth, we wouldn’t have learn to really appreciate and cherish the love that is between ourselves and our love It is through the overcoming of all those quarrels and problems, surviving them through together that we truly know that we deeply cherish the love that is between both, strengthening the relationship more than ever
Be glad that there is quarrel between both It actually means that the both have developed another step further in your relationship It is only when one is closer to you that a quarrel will then actually happen I don’t suppose you will pick up a quarrel with your partner whom you just started dating? You be just trying all out to please him or her instead, wouldn’t you?
But do however treat each and every quarrel seriously, especially when the both of you have just started This is the time for you and your partner to further understand each other more deeply, the time for you to reflect on yourself and honestly think about the relationship This is the time for the relationship to be tested A test of your love for one another; whether this relationship is strong enough to withstand any thunderstorm there may be Well, a survival never fails to further strengthen the relationship, truly cherishing each other ever more
Avoid unnecessary reasoning at the point of a quarrel Most of the times it will only make things worse, wait till both have cooled down At the end of the day, always make an effort to find out what actually went wrong Is it your fault? Talk to each other nicely, share your unhappiness; let your partner know how you felt A softer tone is always more calming and pleasing to the ears Your partner will usually be willing to listen and to share his or her feelings with you too Sometimes it is out of too much care for one another that unwillingly trigger off a quarrel between both?
Remember, nobody wanted any quarrel If you are at fault, please don’t be a stubborn donkey, you jolly well apologize and seek for your partner’s forgiveness A word of sorry isn’t really that hard to say out? There is nothing ashamed to feel of, especially when with your love? Admit your fault, a sincere apology would always be pleasing to the ears; most of the time, harmony it will bring Nonetheless, if your partner were to apologize to you, you graciously accept it Why start another quarrel when you could end it? Well, there shouldn’t be any overnight grudges between couples
Give each other a good hug “I love you dear, I am really so sorry to have hurt you, please forgive me…” Now isn’t that such a sweet ending? It is usually through so that you understand each other better, cherishing each other even dearly Remember, love is a two-way communication It takes two happy persons, a happy you and your love to complete the equation

Rick Valens Staff Writer for http://wwwloveletterboxcom,
Love Relationship Discussion Forum
Currently also freelance writer for http://wwwecemeteryorg,
Monument of Eternal Memory

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