Bath Time For Your Alzheimer’s Patient

Caring for an Alzheimer’s patient is one of the most difficult things you can do It involves a lot of energy, time and patience It can be very frustrating People with Alzheimer’s may refuse help from caregivers This is a sign that they are actually trying to communicate with you Refusal to accept care is a sign that something is missing or not right It’s up to the caregiver to assess the situation

If your loved one refuses to take her bath or shower, this might be a clue that something is bothering her It may be embarrassment Remember that your loved one used to do all these things alone before she had Alzheimer’s and now she has to depend on another person It is very frustrating You may have to limit bath time Approach the situation one step at a time in a non-threatening manner While you help your loved one undress, use a smooth calming voice As you bathe her, you can talk about old memories you used to share It will make the process more enjoyable and pleasant for both of you

If this does not work and your loved one still resists your help, then you might need try again later When people with Alzheimer’s do not like to bathe, it often stems from fear Make sure the lighting in the bathroom is adequate for your loved one to see If she cannot see well, her fear will increase Let the shower or bath run for a while to warm up the room It will make it more comfortable No one likes to undress in a cold room If your loved one is using a shower, you might want to put a chair in it so she can sit down You can purchase one of those at a medical supply store or drug store Use a hand held shower head This will take the water up to her level and will be less threatening

Music is a good way to help as well It can be good therapy Studies have shown that some Alzheimer’s patients react very well to music They may feel less stress Music can decrease emotions of agitation or aggressive behavior You can play soft music; add some fragrance in the bathroom It will make it more inviting You can try to use the same rituals your loved one used before when taking a bath or a shower Routine is extremely important for persons with Alzheimer’s

If you feel there is still tension and resistance, you can always choose another option You can hire some professional help just for the bathing time If you decide to get someone to help you, make sure that person has experience with Alzheimer’s disease and knows how to handle patients with dementia You can hire someone on your own or go through an agency They have qualified people and will be able to assist you in this situation Sometimes, the individual with dementia will respond better to a third party rather than a family member Put yourself in her shoes, it can be really embarrassing having someone from your family bathe you A disinterested, but gentle, third party may help greatly

The main thing is to handle bath time in a loving manner Your loved one will appreciate it and it will lower her stress level, as well as yours

William G Hammond, JD is a nationally known elder law attorney and founder of The Alzheimer’s Resource Center He is a frequent guest on radio and television and has developed innovative solutions to guide families who have a loved one suffering from Alzheimer’s For more information you can visit his website at wwwBeatAlzheimerscom

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