Are You Doing What You Love Each and Every Day?

It is easy to get caught up in the day-to-day stress of everyday life: deadlines to meet, schedules to keep, unexpected expenses, conflicts to resolve, illness of loved ones, to name a few Amidst all this, it is easy to for me to lose sight of why I do what I do – my purpose for being I discovered my passion and my purpose over seven years ago It was the catalyst for starting my business, The Center for Balanced Living in 1996 It is what led me to my purpose which is to empower you to live out your dreams with ease and abundance Sometimes I get caught up in the external factors and forget to focus on what is really important It is then that I must remind myself why I am here It is a grounding place for me

I teach my clients to look to their life for their passions and purpose That is certainly where mine came from and I have found it to be true for many others A lot of different threads weave through my story, but the most obvious and first I can remember centered around my life while I was growing up, and most specifically my dad I’d like to share that story with you now

I always had the impression my dad was unhappy Actually, miserable is more the way I would describe him He was mostly unhappy about his jobs all of them that I can remember I vividly remember my dad coming home from work, with his shoulders hunched over and his head hanging low He would walk right past a mosaic picture of horses pulling a carriage through the snow

Looking exhausted and sad, he would sit down at the kitchen table and say to my mom, “Charlie (that’s what he called her), I can’t take it anymore I want to quit my job!” And I can remember my mom, who was looking after our security and well-being in the best way she knew how, saying, “Just hang in there Mac Stick it out! We need the money!” And I can remember thinking, ‘Yeah! Hang in there! We need the money!’ We didn’t have much money in those days

This story repeated itself year after year, as my dad persevered The last two years of his career were literally a countdown to retirement at age 65 My dad retired at age 65 Two years later, he did some introspective thinking at the prompting of his daughter At age 67, my dad declared himself an artist I can still remember the moment he told me My eyes got teary as I recalled the beautiful, mosaic picture on their living-room wall

You see my dad made that mosaic picture, but I never saw him working on it He created it before I was born It was a beautiful mosaic, made of thousands of small hand-cut tiles My dad had always been an artist but had suppressed that talent for most of his life while he strove to earn a living for his family He worked in the garment industry in New York, and then the carpet industry in Florida I often wonder what would have been possible if my dad had worked out a way to utilize his artistic abilities in his jobs He had always been a good employee; he might have been a happy one too

For a while my dad was happier than I had ever seen him He carved wood etchings and gave them away as gifts He traveled to places he had never seen He also made more money in his investments than he did at his jobs I am glad he had that short time period when he was happy Unfortunately, it wasn’t too long before my dad’s health started to decline Eventually, he lost patience and could no longer focus on his artwork His health began to deteriorate and he passed away on September 9, 2003 He was 76 years old My dad waited until he retired to do what he loved It was a small window in the whole continuum of his life That is why, more than ever, I strongly urge people to move forward now — don’t wait until you retire to do what you love We all tend to live as if we have forever, but really, who knows our time allotment?

Are you doing what you love to do?

If not, what is one action step you can take today to move you forward?

Do you know your purpose in life? If so, take the time today to get re-grounded in it If not, take the time to reflect on what you want to contribute in this lifetime Consider hiring a coach to help you discover it

Stacey Mayo, aka The Dream Queen, founded the Center for Balanced Living in 1995 as a vehicle to carry out her life’s work Since that time she has assisted thousands of people to live our their dreams with amazing results She is a Master Certified Coach and author of Is Your Ladder Leaning Against the Wrong Wall? Her next book, “I Can’t Believe I Get Paid to Do This!” will be out later this year For more info and to receive a free assessment entitled Healthy Success, visit wwwbalancedlivingcom

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